There's a current shitmess going on with me and a friend of mine. I'd apologise to him, if I'd actually done anything wrong.It's exhausting trying to stand up for yourself a
ll the tiiiime.I'm not posting this to rip it out of him, but he wont return my texts or tweets or anything. So if he sees this he'll probably blog something ambiguous and intelligent in response, using big words to flaunt his oh-so-superior wit to the world.
... Aaahh.. Maybe I ripped at him a little there.. Apologies.
I don't think it's dawned on hi--
Right no. I think I'm mature enough to speak directly (I'm fully aware that blogging doesn't really qualify as 'direct' .. cut me some slack)
Has it dawned on you that what she told you I said, isn't? Or that you've misinterpreted it? You tend to do that.
It was a harmless 'who the heck are you?' facebook chat conversation with a girl he knows(who I didn't realise was of any importance to him until my buddy Ems, who I'm living with, told me she knew her).
I really don't like it when people add you on facebook, after they've never met/talked to you, just because you have mutual friends, and then when you try to make polite conversation to find out who they actually are, they either don't talk back, or use "Lol" or "Yep" as a solid sentence.
Ems then informed me that this girl went out on a date with him, and my honest reaction was a heart-felt "Good for you man!", after his talks of previous failing relationships.
He'd invited us over earlier in the day, but we couldn't make it, so I asked this girl if she was going round too, and that we were going to but couldn't get down there, and that it would've been nice to meet her.
He'd shown her a tweet of mine that I'd posted just after I started 'talking' to her on chat that went like this..
"I don't like being added on facebook by people I don't know. Just because you know my friends, it doesn't mean I have to know you".
Fair do's, it may have been a little harsh, but twitter is the place for venting your obscurities without the world judging you!
I don't understand why it was necessary to show her that? It was so out of line, after being nothing but Little Miss Nice during our conversation.
If things like this keep happening between us, I can't see us being friends much longer. I'd actually hate that. Maybe it's for the best though, who knows, but I don't see what good can come from losing you.
"How did we get here, when I used to know you so well..?"
Yes I just threw some cheesy lyrics at you.
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